When you’ve been together 30 or 40 years and the surviving one doesn’t die directly after the first

It’s like

Did you even love them at all or were you just using them like they were a replacement for your parents where you got to do everything you wanted then use the lessons from anger management to instigate the situation in driving the other literally bat shit crazy

I understand a married couple using the anger management lessons to fix their marriage 

But when you get old enough you can start using calm collected all that as a weapon it’s time to go lol